I will remember many things about Dad, but three will always stand out for me. The first was his love and enjoyment of the exotic. Maybe that was part of accepting me as a daughter in law, but it was certainly a part of his enjoying his visits to Pakistan, whether it was a trek in the Himalayas, or wandering around the city, or canoeing on the Indus River, or even just working at our home on the farm. The second was how much trouble he took for people. All the many times I used to come to England, at least once a year and sometimes more, whether I was on my own or with the children, whether I was on work or on a family visit, (except for one memorable trip when only Mum could come and pick me up!) as long as Dad was physically able, he would come to collect me/us at the airport. From the day I became a daughter in law, he was always there to receive me when I came to visit them, and that was very important to me and to my parents. One year when I mixed up the dates and missed my flight, he came two days running, all the way from Winchester to Heathrow, although I begged him not to, I was so annoyed with myself. But he came anyway. And both Dad and Mum provided family love and support for all of us. Every time we visited, Dad and Mum would have some treat lined up for the children. There were occasions over the summer, when inundated with visitors, they would take turns to take us out, and specially the children on special trips which are some of our best memories. And all this fetching and carrying wasn’t just for us, but for our friends and my family when they visited England, whether we were there or not, specially for my mother, my sister and many cousins and friends, most specially our beloved friend Jameel. And the third thing was simply an extension of this, his tireless work and commitment for less privileged people, whether it was people who needed support through Trinity or whether it was for a non-English speaking Pakistani friend whom even couldn’t communicate with in words, or Pakistanis who had lost their homes in the earthquake, or Pakistani canoeists caught in many different fixes! So many people in Pakistan remember him, on every trip he connected with old friends and made new ones. We will all miss him very very much. Yameema
Yameema
22nd May 2020